21 Day Well-Being Challenge

Day 1

Sharing Our Uniqueness

Sharing Our Uniqueness

Welcome to the Mindful Practices 21-Day Self-Care Challenge! These daily self-care tips, inspirational quotes, and recommended activities will help you stay centered, motivated, and accountable.

On this first step of your journey, enjoy a moment of self-reflection.

First: Trace an outline of your hand.

Then: Think about what you wish the world knew about you to better understand and connect with you. For example, “I laugh when I am nervous.”

Write these insights on the palm and fingers of your hand.

Next: Decorate your hand with your favorite colors and designs that represent you.

Last: Consider displaying your hand somewhere to share these insights with others. Let the world see what makes you uniquely you!

Day 2

Flip The Script:
Turning ANTs Into PATs!

ants vs pats

“Our mind is like a blue sky. Clouds come and go. We tend to get caught up in the clouds and forget about the blue sky.”

– Andy Puddicombe

We all experience ANTs, Automatic Negative Thoughts, those little voices that creep in and bring us down. With practice, we can flip the script and turn them into PATs, Positive and Affirming Thoughts! Here’s how:

 Notice the ANTs – Pay attention when negative thoughts pop up. Just recognizing them is a powerful first step!

Celebrate the Catch – The moment you spot an ANT, take a second to appreciate that awareness. That’s growth in action!

Replace with a PAT – Reframe the thought by shifting from “have to” to “get to”. The more you practice with little things, the more natural it becomes when bigger challenges arise.

For example:
🚫 ANT: “I have to go to the grocery store after work, and I don’t want to.”
PAT: “I get to bring home food to nourish myself and my loved ones.”

The invitation here is to find the positive in the moment, no matter how small. Give it a try and notice how shifting your thoughts can shift your mindset. You deserve kindness—especially from yourself!

Day 3

Take Time to Journal

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Journaling
“Journaling is paying attention to the inside for the purpose of living well from the inside out.” 

– Bobby Knight

Journaling is a great way to help us achieve our goals, boost our emotional intelligence, heal from challenging experiences, and even become more confident. We challenge you to set aside ten minutes today, pick one or two of the prompts below, and permit yourself to write without any judgment or pressure.

  • What helps you feel present? What helps you feel at peace?
  • What opportunities have come from a challenge you’ve experienced?
  • What are some ways you practice self-acceptance? 
  • What is a choice you can make this week to serve yourself?
  • What’s something you can do now that you weren’t able to do a year ago? How does it feel to recognize your growth?

Day 4

Move & Groove

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Journaling
The body holds onto stress in unhealthy ways. Physical activity is a great way to fight stress. When we move, endorphins (the body’s feel-good neurotransmitters) are released, having a positive effect on the entire body. Today we encourage you to get moving! You might play a game of basketball, do a yoga video at home, go to your local gym and take a swim, have a mini dance party in your living room, or go for a walk. Whatever you choose to do, know that your movement is having a direct effect on your wellness.
“Change happens through movement. And movement heals.”

— Joseph Pilates

Day 5

Listen to a Podcast!

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Podcast

Podcasts are a hands-free, eyes-free form of entertainment and there are podcasts for just about any interest you could think of! Listening to a podcast while you take a walk, put away groceries, do the dishes, or fold laundry is a great way to make our daily workload feel lighter. It’s also a great way to cut down on screen time but learn about unique topics all at the same time!

Greatest put together a list of the Top 10 self-care podcasts that could be a great place to start!

Day 6

Doodle Day!

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Doodle
Doodling is known to relieve stress, improve focus, and spark creativity. Find a piece of paper and start drawing! Don’t worry about how it looks or what you are creating, just draw. For inspiration try this.
“The creative process is a process of surrender, not control..”

— Julia Cameron

Day 7

Rethinking “Should”

Teachers giving Heart Hands

The word “should”can be surprisingly harmful in how we communicate with ourselves and others. It often implies that what we are doing is not enough.

For example, “I should eat more vegetables” can feel discouraging and judgmental. But “I will start eating more vegetables” is empowering and action-oriented.

Take a moment to notice how often you use the word “should” and reflect on whether it serves you. Small language shifts can make a big difference in how we approach growth and self-compassion.

Feel free to read this brief article for some alternatives to shoulding ourselves and others.

“To wish you were someone else is to
waste the person you are.”

— Sven Goran Eriksson

Day 8

Don’t Wait! Hydrate!

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Stay Hydrated

We all know it’s important to drink water throughout the day. It improves blood flow, increases energy levels, regulates your digestive system and improves skin tone. 

Commit to staying hydrated by drinking habitually throughout the day. Incorporate it into your morning ritual and see where it takes you. Today, we encourage  you to stay hydrated!

“I try to start drinking water as soon as my feet hit the floor in the morning.”

— Mary Kay Andrews 

Day 9

Enjoy a Walk!

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Take a Walk

Sometimes we find ourselves stuck inside all day, surrounded by floors, walls, and ceilings. Today we invite you to step away from the indoors and all that presses upon you from within its space. Instead, find the expansive sky to draw your gaze upward. Take a 15-minute walk. Take some deep breaths of the fresh air and be reminded of the beauty that surrounds us all, if we will only take notice.

“Walking is the great adventure, the first meditation, a practice of heartiness and soul primary to humankind. Walking is the exact balance between spirit and humility.”

— Gary Snyder 

Day 10

Finding A Balance: Self-Care vs. Self-Soothing

Man in a wheelchair with his pets, surrounded by butterflies.

Self-care and self-soothing both play important roles in our well-being, but understanding the difference helps us maintain balance.

Self-soothing offers quick relief in stressful moments—like reaching for chocolate after a tough day. It’s a temporary comfort, much like a pacifier for an infant.

Self-care is proactive and intentional. It includes routines like meditation, meal prepping, or regular exercise—practices that build resilience and prepare us to respond to stress rather than just react.

Both are valuable, but self-care strengthens long-term well-being, reducing reliance on quick fixes. Take a moment to list your self-care and self-soothing habits. Are there any shifts you’d like to make? Small changes over time can lead to lasting benefits!

“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”

—Oscar Wilde

Day 11

Affirmations and I Am Statements

Teacher Partaking in the I am Activity

Let’s focus our attention on our intention by taking a moment in the morning to ask and reflect upon the following questions, and I am statement.

How do you want to show up this week?

What one word sums up what you need
in order to show up that way?

Say that word in your mind.

Now add the words “I am” in front of that word because you already have everything you need inside of you to meet any challenge that comes your way.

Breathe in “I am” Breathe out “your word”. Bring this affirmation to mind throughout the day with a post it on the mirror, a reminder on your phone, or a note on your computer screen.

Day 12

Make an Appointment

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Make an Appointment
Trips to the dentist, routine doctor’s visits, and yearly eye exams are important. They provide major support for our quality of life and our long term health and well-being. We are responsible for our own health; having a trusted and trained medical professional on your team is a BIG plus. They are able to  advocate for you, they can level with you about what they see, and they can offer counsel during times when clarity is needed. Don’t wait for something to break before taking the time to make sure the whole system is operating properly…
“Self-care means giving the world the best of you instead of what is left of you.”

— Katie Reed

Day 13

Gratitude Buddy

Gratitude Buddy

Gratitude has a way of shifting our perspective. It is hard to stay upset when we focus on what we appreciate. If it feels right, consider finding a gratitude buddy, someone you check in with regularly to share what you are thankful for. It could be a friend, partner, parent, or anyone you trust.

It keeps gratitude at the center of our day and strengthens our connection.

Give it a try and see how it shapes your mindset!

Day 14

Spring Cleaning

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Declutter
An uncluttered learning space is a great advantage! We can take the same approach to our own living spaces and recognize the benefits that there are to decluttering:

    1. Find lost treasure
    2. Practice Self-efficacy and build confidence
    3. Reduce anxiety
    4. Cultivate a happy environment
    5. Reduce allergens in the space

Today we challenge you to take a reasonable amount of time (even 5-10 minutes) to start to address the clutter.

“Minimizing can be exhilarating. If you continue decluttering, you just might find a zest for life that you didn’t know existed under all that stuff!” ― Lisa J. Shultz

Day 15

Reconnect with Friends & Family

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Reconnect with Family and Friends
When our collective refrain is “I’m so busy, busy, busy” we can neglect people around us. Today, we challenge you to reconnect and reach out to your friends and family. Write a card or letter to someone who has been out-of-touch for a period of time or text/call someone who lives far away. We guarantee that this practice will not only make you feel good but will also brighten the day of the person on the receiving end, as well!

Day 16

Set a Task-Timer!

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Set a Task Timer
Sometimes the simple act of starting a task is more of a hurdle than actually completing the task. Pick one item that’s been on your to-do list forever, something small like changing a light bulb, organizing your junk drawer, or a quick closet clean-out. 

Set your timer for 15 minutes and tackle the project. The timer helps this task feel manageable; you don’t need to worry that you don’t have the time to take on this one item from your to-do list because when the timer goes off, you’re done! Celebrate your accomplishment of completing a task that’s been nagging at you.

Day 17

Implement an Electronics Curfew

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Electronic Time-Limit
Help yourself wind down for a good night’s sleep by setting an electronics curfew. Our sleep cycles are heavily tied to light and research shows that the artificial light from electronics prevents the neurons and hormones that promote sleep. A good practice to help your ability to fall–and stay–asleep is to stop using these electronics 60 minutes or more before you plan to go to bed. Find another calming ritual to practice instead (make a mug of caffeine-free tea, read a book, take a bath, etc.) and notice any differences in your ability to wind down.

Day 18

The Power of Yet

The Power of Yet
The word “yet” may be small, but it holds great potential. Adding it to the end of a negative statement transforms it from a limitation into a goal.

For example, “I do not understand this math problem” can feel final and discouraging. But “I do not understand this math problem yet” creates hope and openness to growth.

Try it with other statements like “I can’t run a mile without stopping yet” or “We don’t know how to make time for reflection yet.”

Every time we shift our mindset from negative to positive, we open the door to progress. Have you tried it yet? Enjoy today!

Day 19

Start a “Smile Pile”

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Smile Pile
A “Smile Pile” can be a physical or digital compilation of kind words you’ve received, cards, good memories, photos – any artifact that brings a smile to your face. Maybe you have a sweet drawing from your child, or a student wrote you a meaningful email. Maybe your partner left you a cute sticky note on the bathroom mirror or you have a picture of a pet that makes you laugh. 

Compiling these into one file (endearingly referred to as a “Smile Pile”) that you can access if you’re feeling a little down, is a powerful way to remind you of more positive or joyous moments, and can help lift you up. 

Day 20

Aim for the Goal

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Aim for the Goal
“If you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energy and inspires your hopes.” ― Andrew Carnegie
Setting goals can be a helpful way to focus one’s energy, effort, and time. By choosing what is most important right now, in the near term, and in the long term, you can ensure that your priorities get addressed. Creating and achieving goals is also a simple and practical way to develop and maintain boundaries. 

To create a short-term goal, consider something you wish to get done today, this week, this month, or even this year. And intentionally decide what state of presence you want to bring to the action (for example bring an attitude of gratitude to getting your taxes done or bring a feeling of service to washing dishes).

A long-term goal is something you want to do further in the future. Long-term goals require time and planning. Try working backwards from your long term goals. Think about what you want to achieve then plan steps going back to what you can do right now.

Day 21

Positive Self-Reflection

21 Day Well-Being Challenge - Positive Self Reflection
On this final day of the 21-Day Well-Being Challenge, take a moment to reflect with our Positive Postcard activity:

First: Grab a post-it, index card or piece of paper.

Then: Place your feet firmly on the ground and roll your shoulders back. Close your eyes or look at a still point in your space. Visualize your deposit into your serenity bank account over the past 21 days. What does the deposit slip read?

Next: Set a timer for one minute and draw or illustrate all the reasons you are proud of yourself.

Last:At the end of the minute, take 3 slow exhales. Reminding yourself to be proud of all you have done.

The Mindful Practices Team is so proud of you for completing our well-being challenge!

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